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Client Acquisition for Estate Planners

Proven strategies to get your first clients and build a sustainable estate planning practice - from your first client to consistent referrals.

By Alex Stansbury, Founder
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15 min read
•Updated April 2026

Getting Your First Client

The first client is often the hardest. For what the whole arc actually feels like — first client, first will, first referral — see life after training. For broader marketing strategies, see our Estate Planning Marketing Guide. Here's how successful estate planners get started:

Your immediate network (best starting point):

  • •Friends and family who need wills
  • •Former colleagues
  • •Neighbours and local contacts
  • •Parents from school/activities
  • •Club and society members

The conversation:

"I've just qualified as an estate planner. I help people with wills and lasting powers of attorney. Do you know anyone who might need these services?"

Why start here:

  • •These people already trust you
  • •They want you to succeed
  • •Lower pressure first clients
  • •Honest feedback available
  • •Referrals come naturally

Tips for first clients:

  • •Be honest about being new
  • •Take extra time and care
  • •Ask for feedback
  • •Request testimonials
  • •Ask for referrals

Timeline:

Most graduates get their first client within 1-3 months. Often from someone they already know.

If you're struggling:

  • •Are you actually telling people?
  • •Have you asked for referrals specifically?
  • •Are you visible in your community?
  • •Is your price a barrier? (Consider introductory rates)

Building Referral Relationships

After initial clients, referrals should become your main source. Build them deliberately:

Professional referrers:

Financial advisers:

  • •Your services complement theirs
  • •Their clients need wills
  • •Refer back where appropriate
  • •Build genuine relationships

Accountants:

  • •Similar client base
  • •Often asked about wills
  • •Can refer complex tax to them
  • •Professional relationship valuable

Solicitors:

  • •Often too busy for simple wills
  • •May welcome overflow work
  • •Don't compete, complement
  • •Professional respect essential

Funeral directors:

  • •Clients thinking about planning
  • •Natural conversation about wills
  • •Memorial services contact point
  • •Sensitive relationship required

Care providers:

  • •LPA need obvious
  • •Capacity awareness important
  • •Can provide valuable service
  • •Training for staff possible

How to approach:

1. Identify potential referrers in your area

2. Request a coffee/meeting

3. Explain what you do (briefly)

4. Ask about their business

5. Explore mutual benefit

6. Follow up and maintain relationship

7. Refer to them where possible

The key: Give first. Refer to them. Help their clients. Referrals follow.

Local Visibility Strategies

Being known in your local area generates ongoing client flow:

Community involvement:

  • •Join local groups and clubs
  • •Attend community events
  • •Volunteer where appropriate
  • •Be genuinely involved, not just selling

Speaking opportunities:

  • •Rotary/Lions club talks
  • •Library workshops
  • •Community centre sessions
  • •Charity partnership events
  • •"Planning for Later Life" topics

Local business networking:

  • •BNI or similar groups
  • •Chamber of commerce
  • •Local business breakfast groups
  • •Industry associations

Local marketing:

  • •Google Business Profile (essential, free)
  • •Local directories
  • •Parish magazine advertising
  • •Sponsoring local events
  • •Community noticeboards

What works:

  • •Being known as "the will person" locally
  • •Regular visibility over time
  • •Genuine community contribution
  • •Word of mouth building

What doesn't work:

  • •One-off marketing blasts
  • •Aggressive sales approach
  • •Expecting immediate results
  • •Being visible only when selling

Converting Enquiries to Clients

Getting enquiries is one thing; converting them to clients is another:

First contact (phone/email):

  • •Respond quickly (same day)
  • •Be warm and professional
  • •Ask questions to understand their needs
  • •Explain your process briefly
  • •Suggest a consultation

Initial consultation:

  • •Listen more than talk
  • •Understand their situation fully
  • •Explain options in plain English
  • •Be honest about costs
  • •Don't pressure - inform

Common objections:

"I need to think about it"

  • •Perfectly fine, give them space
  • •Offer to answer any questions
  • •Follow up in a week or two
  • •Some people need time

"It's expensive"

  • •Explain the value provided
  • •Compare to solicitor costs
  • •Mention risks of no will/LPA
  • •Don't discount without reason

"I'll do it later"

  • •Acknowledge the reluctance
  • •Mention why now matters (statistics)
  • •Don't push, plant seeds
  • •Stay in touch for when they're ready

Conversion rates:

  • •Good: 60-70% of consultations become clients
  • •Average: 40-50%
  • •Lower than 30%: review your approach

Key insight: People buy from people they trust. Build relationship first, conversion follows.

Systematic Client Generation

Once established, systematise your client acquisition:

Monthly activities:

  • •X networking events
  • •X referrer relationship contacts
  • •X pieces of content/visibility
  • •Review and follow up enquiries
  • •Ask recent clients for referrals

Tracking:

  • •Where did each client come from?
  • •Which activities generate results?
  • •What's your cost per client?
  • •Which referrers send best clients?

Focus resources:

  • •Do more of what works
  • •Stop what doesn't
  • •Invest in best referrer relationships
  • •Build on successful channels

The referral machine:

After every completed case:

1. Ask for feedback

2. Request testimonial

3. Ask who else might benefit

4. Send thank you note

5. Follow up in 6-12 months

Annual goals:

Set realistic targets:

  • •Year 1: 20-40 clients
  • •Year 2: 40-60 clients
  • •Year 3: 60-100 clients

The compound effect:

Each happy client can refer 2-3 more over time. Your client base compounds. By Year 3-4, most new clients come through referrals, and you spend less time actively marketing.

Key Takeaways

  • First clients usually come from your existing network
  • Building referral relationships is essential for long-term success
  • Local visibility generates ongoing client flow
  • Converting enquiries requires relationship building, not selling
  • Systematise your marketing activities for consistent results
  • Client acquisition gets easier over time as referrals compound

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